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Bye Gothic... Sarah, I dont know for sure because Im rather dumb... But I think that people are mean because it makes them feel superior... Thats what Ive told myself, but I dont think that I really believe in it...

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Hey guys Im back though I never said I left but whatever...

and people being mean ... Kiljo does have a point but I think that the way society shows what is important in life completly destroys concept of values and of what is importnat. Therefore lots of people dont realize that caring about other people more than yourself is a valuable trait that can get you far in life.

wow if that doesnt make sense just ignore it

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its just so frustrating cuz i have been nice my whole life, and all they do is treat me like crap. sometimes i wonder "whats the point of having friends?"

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Welcome back!

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welcome back mags :wave:

There is a point Sarah, its just hard to see when people behave like idiots. Real friends don't do stuff like that. When I became ill I could really go out anymore nor could I visit my friends. In the beggining I was even to sick to email or call them. That when I noticed the meaning of true friendship. True friends don't go away. Now the ones who I am still friends with mean the world to me!

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Im sorry Sarah... life can be so frustrating sometimes and you wonder what the point of it all is but you have to realize that on the other end of these lonely moments are amazing highs... and well I must admit that without the lows you dont realize how valubale and amazing the Highs are.

I know that when my best friend and I drifted apart for a while it felt horrible but I just held out and she is still the bestest friend Ive ever had.

So sarah just stick it out and apretiate every moment and life...those High moments are headed your way.

wow Im usualy not this corny

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Sarah... The fact that you are nice when others are mean to you shows that you are nicer than them, you live on a higher level... Its something that you should be proud of! Im sorry that you are feeling bad, if I can help... Please just let me know how...

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i know i should be proud of it, but sometimes im tempted to just go down a notch or two......

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I agree with kiljo Sarah. When I was seven I got bullied by a former friend. She suddenly turned against me and got everyone with her. Some time later they started bulling someone else and invited me to join in this. It meant I would no longer be bullied. Instead I tried to help the person being bullied. As a result she was back with the others bulling me the next day. I never ever regretted the what I did. It was (and is) who I am and I am proud I did not lower myself to their level. Shorhtly after we all became friends again and the reason the girl was bulling me was because she had a really hard time at home and when she saw everyone liked me and everything was going well for me she got jealous. And shorthly after I got a bunch of new friends that appreciated kindness.

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well, all this crying has made me quite tired, so i know its early, but im going to bed. maybe ill be here tomorrow, maybe i wont. who knows.
bye