Good advice, jan (if I may call you that). We'll see...
About falling madly in love online - I think the chaces of finding your soulmate there aren't worse than anywhere else! So, I'd say I tell that person about it. Then again, I can be a coward there and would probably hope for the guy to take the first step 
If somebody from the other side of the world fell madly in love with you online and told you, what would you do?